Ask Paul B: Honey—It’s NOT MY FAULT!

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Dear Paul B,

You have to help me out here. I have been living with my girlfriend for 9 months and we are very tight. She told me the other day that she saw that I was talking to a dating website and trying to meet other women. I swear that I did not! I would never do anything to hurt her. I just signed up for a new Gmail account, and sometimes they send all this junk mail because they ask your status. She might kick me out.



Dear Derek,

Sound like you are in more than just hot water. I do agree that we often receive junk mail and these “teaser ads” from knuckleheads trying to lure us with our curiosity. Corresponding with them to actually meet and date is another subject. I do NOT know you from Adam, so I cannot vouche for you, but I will warn you that you better save some $$$ for your own apartment. Your GF sounds like she could change the locks anyday, so you best watch your behavior. Buy some flowers and take her out for a nice dinner and promise that you did not and will not play the field.

Paul B.


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