TwitterACicon86x90vert facebookACicon86x90vert
TV/Radio XFINITY | WOW! | WBBM | WXRT | B96 + Dance | US99 | the Drive 97.1

YoutubeTwitterFacebookArlingtoncardinalYahoo! Google Bing Aol.ArlingtoncardinalTMZ Rotten Tomatoes ET Online Box Office MojoArlingtoncardinal Channel 9 WGN Channel 7 Chicago ABC Channel 5 Chicago NBC Channel 2 Chicago CBS Daily HeraldChicago Tribune Breaking NewsArlingtoncardinal Chicago Gas PricesFloridaCardinal.comGLOBALCONFLICTMAPS.COM THE GUIDE

Ask Paul B: Do Nice Guys Finish Last? What Happened to Just Nice People?

Mon November 09 2015 1:20 pm
 Share The Cardinal -- Articles (E-Mail, Facebook, Twitter & More) 

CHICAGO BEARS RADIO -- WBBM Newsradio 780 "Traffic on the 8's"

Dear Paul B,

I am a 30 year old man, and I am a really nice person. I treat everyone fairly, regardless of their color, or how “big” they are. I work with 45 people, and I am sure that I could be mayor of everyone, if there was ever an election here. I remember people’s birthdays, and help the older people out to their cars when it is snowy or icy outside. I am not the most handsome man, but I cannot find a NICE woman anywhere. I feel that everyone wants so much more than I can give, and yet, I am an enormous giver. I would like to find a wife, but I am starting to give up, and don’t even want to call the numbers that people give me. I know that there are many single women, but they are NOT NICE. I just had to write you about this. My Mother always told me that the world can be cruel, but I don’t want to live alone forever. I had a girlfriend for two years, but she left me for a man who is very wealthy. He is also 55, and she is 27. I don’t have much money, but I do have a nice house, and I would be a great husband and Dad. Any ideas, please?


Dear Boris,

You appear to be a very pleasant, down to earth man. I believe there is someone for everyone. It is true that many of us judge others by their appearance, their job titles, names, color, height, weight, etc. People have become quite “nit picky” these days, and it is truly ridiculous to be so trivial. We are all “flawed” in some way, and we need to recognize the importance of loyalty, intelligence, sense of humor, integrity, family values, and sincerity. There are many components to ones personality, that are critically more important than one’s height, weight, or hair color. We must step back and see a person’s whole being. Before we “judge” one by their dialect, wallet size, or ethnicity. Open yourself up and you will see so much more when you take in all that a person has to offer. Say “yes” to the second date, and be of a curious nature before you give him the thumbs down. It will allow you to enjoy richer relationships, and meet many more people along your search for Mr. or Mrs. Right.. Enjoy the ride, it should be great fun!

— Paul B.

Green Day singing “Nice Guys Finish Last” and “Waiting” at Rock am Ring 2013 – Nürburgring, Germany – 06/09/2013


ASK PAUL B! usually appears on Thursday evenings, but occasionally appears on other days or times so the article might be introduced to new readers.

Advice is offered for general discussion. Any advice from a columnist or someone who has never actually met you is not guaranteed to be fit for your particular situation. While the advice might help send you in the right direction to find a solution to your problem, missing information or lack of specific dialogue might cause you harm, or delay a solution to your problem. Never use this advice as the sole replacement for advice from a physician, psychologist or other health professional or other professional. The information provided through any post or Ask Paul B! post is not a substitute for health, legal and other professional advice where specific facts and circumstances warrant additional personal attention. If any reader requires legal advice, health advice or other professional assistance, each reader should always consult his or her own legal, health professional, or other professional advisors and discuss the facts and circumstances that specifically apply to the user. Consider the topics discussed as a part of your overall experience for your pursuit of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Don’t hesitate to get help when you might need professional help.

The views of Ask Paul B! are not necessarily the views of The Cardinal —

Get updates from The Cardinal ALL NEWS FEEDS on Facebook. Just ‘LIKE’ the ‘Arlington Cardinal Page (become a fan of our page). The updates cover all posts and sub-category posts from The Cardinal — You can also limit feeds to specific categories. See all of The Cardinal Facebook fan pages at …

CLEAR SKIES?  Weather Data for Monday, November 9th, 2015

Tags: ,    

IMPORTANT NOTE: All persons referred to as subjects, defendants, offenders or suspects, etc. are presumed to be innocent unless and until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law.

Try a more powerful search in the box below ... SEARCH BOX PRODUCES RESULTS FOR The Cardinal -- ...
(POWERFUL SEARCH for The Cardinal, which can be expanded on the results page.)

Where background Wikipedia info/photos are used, original work is modified and released under CC-BY-SA.

::: Health, wellness and fitness gifts! ::: Cubs, Sox caps at :::

ARLINGTON HEIGHTS BREAKING NEWS --The Cardinal -- is a breaking news blog with Arlington Heights & Chicagoland emphasis. Early breaking reports may prove to be inaccurate after follow-up investigation, which may or may not be updated in The Cardinal -- For in-depth coverage, please also check the following links for network television, cable news networks and Chicago local media coverage ...

Daily Herald | Daily Herald -- Arlington Heights |
Today's headline videos: FOXNews Video | | Associated Press | The Cardinal
Chicago Area Newspapers
CNN Arlington Heights  FOXNEWS  BREITBART.COM  cbs2chicago  NBC 5 Chicago  abc7chicago   WGNTV      WGNRADIO720  NEWSRADIO 78  CHICAGO BREAKING NEW  Daily Herald Arlington Heights  Chicago Tribune   Seed Newsvine
Video LOGO youtube Twitter Arlingtoncards facebook battery status Cardinal Calendar Search Batteries Plus RSS Help ...
All Headlines
crimeblog | fireblog

Comments for
COMMENTS are now available via one or more of our official Facebook pages. Comments no longer appear on the article per se. Please comment on or check the other popular Arlington Cardinal Facebook pages at ...

Anyone having information about serious crime in Arlington Heights should register on and look for the anonymous TIP411 feature, or call Arlington Heights Crime Stoppers at 847-590-STOP (847-590-7867). Callers are guaranteed anonymity and may qualify for a cash reward of up to $1,000. Not a resident of Arlington Heights? Check for availability for your community. | Traffic on Twitter


Weather radar map is provided by

RSS Cardinal Weather Center